How do you handle pain-suffering-trouble-trials? It does matter. When plagued by those ugly words choose wisely; begin Reflecting Light. Here's one step:
LOOSE RESENTMENT
If you carry resentment for anyone it will ultimately harm you. If a snake bite you, you can not be unbitten. It is not the bite but, the venom that will kill you. Don't allow the venom (resentment) to continue to flow inside.